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Seasons Change….People Don’t

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People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

We’ve all heard this quote that actually is lifted from a poem by undisclosed author. Last weekend, I also got a chance to hear a speaker who talked about springing into your season. I don’t remember everything she said verbatim. But one thing in particular is that you have to not only know when it’s your season, but exactly what is in store for you during that season. We all love to say “it’s our season” and dismiss people in our lives that we thought were there for to stay for a lifetime. But somebody was able to get into our heads, and make us turn our backs on people who really meant us well. But we were big and bad and told them how they were only there for a season and served no reason for being in our lives. What a shame…

For instance, let’s say that you really want to start-up your own business and you want to be in a romantic relationship. You’re beginning to get tired of the corporate life and want to start calling your own shots. Months down the line, you find a great person to be in a relationship with, but your dreams haven’t kicked off at the same time. Did you ever stop to think that maybe you had to meet the right person who would be a great resource to help motivate and push you into your dreams? Just a thought. Or just maybe your season may be something you don’t desire to do right now. But it could be in preparation for the season you’re trying to get to. You can’t get to a season of financial independence by spending your check at the mall every time you get it. Then there are also those who want to balance multiple seasons at once…..love, finances, school, business endeavors and being the President of every organization known to man. Let’s slow down a bit. Although some people have the gift of juggling down to a science, it’s not for everyone. It’s ok if you have to step into your season one foot at a time.

We often like to place the blame on life circumstances and other people for not being in the season desire to be in. But have we ever stopped spinning aimlessly for just a second to realize that the seasons are steadily changing, with opportunities ready for us to grab? Could it be that as the seasons change, we are not willing to adapt to make the best of them? Are you ready for your season? If so, then ask yourself what changes you’ve made to prepare for it.

4 seasons

 

I Love/Hate You….The Beast! (Part 2)

Here we go….earlier today you got a chance to read some of the reasons why I love Summer (The Beauty), now check out why I hate it (The Beast!)

1.  It’s HOT!!!

There’s no nice way to say it! Triple digit (and double digits when it gets past 90 degrees) temperatures are never fun and it just makes you more irritable being hot. At least when it’s cold you can cover up in layers…but when it’s hot, you can be butt naked and guess what?? You’re still HOT!! WTH?!

2. Empty Pockets

If we add up the costs, most of us will find that we spend much more money in the Summer. Between high electricity bills to run the AC, washing more clothes and buying more cold drinks, it’s not a cheap season. Summer can not only put sweat on your face, but a nice dent in your wallet too.

3. Mosquitos

BBQ? Check. Pool Party? Check. Fireworks? Check. Mosquitos? Aaaggghh!! I hate mosquitos with a passion and they always seem to weasel their way in during the Summer months. You hardly ever see mosquitos in the Winter…and why??? Because it’s so cold, their wings will probably freeze before they get full lift off from the ground…SMH. Interestingly enough,  I’ve noticed when I take vitamin B, it seems to ward them off a little bit.

4. What’s That Smell???

As much as we would like to think that everyone has excellent hygiene, we know that’s not the truth. And hey, even those that do have great hygiene can be a little “unsure” from standing outside in the heat too long. The bad thing about Summer is that it’s a microwave for unpleasant smells. The cold usually zaps any body odors and keeps them contained to that person walking around with them.  Think about it…have you ever gone to a hot hospital? Nope. Why??? The smell itself would probably be sickening enough.

5. Metal Burn 

Have you ever gotten in your car in the heat of the day and the metal part of the seat belt hits your arm!? OUCH! I hate that…and it seems like it happens to me all the time, lol. There’s nothing more irritating than trying to maneuver your way into a hot car that’s been sitting in the sun for hours. The steering wheel, seat belt and the arm rest are blazing and you try not to brush against them, but somehow you always do.

So now that you’ve read what I love and hate about Summer, let’s hear what you think about it? Do you agree with the list or have one of your own? Or maybe you love Summer and hate Winter? Or do you just prefer Spring or Fall? Share your thoughts!

I Love/Hate You….The Beauty (Part 1)

You’re beautiful. The way you shine so brightly and flaunt your radiance for all to see. Yep, you are extremely breathtaking….literally. More than an eye could ever behold or any space with 4 walls could ever contain. Captivating to the nth degree…that’s what you are….

But you know….after a while, your beauty begins to be sickening. You are stuck to me like white on rice. My neck is itching and my arms are burning! Will you please get off of me???….literally. These beads are rolling down my back. But like all things striking and annoying, this season too shall pass….

SUMMER! Yep, it’s almost here and if you currently live in Texas or have ever passed through it, you know how hot it gets here in the Summer time. Winter is my favorite season. I don’t totally dislike Summer, because it has its perks too, but not without pain. So I decided to put together a list of the 5 reasons I love Summer…and the 5 reasons I hate it:

Summer….Why I Love You (The Beauty)

1. Swimming

Who doesn’t love to get in the pool on a hot day, even if it is just an excuse to show the progress of your workouts? I love water and watching anything on TV about fish, oceans and properties of water, so Summer is the best time for this. You get to go to water parks, have water balloon fights and get one of the best cardio workouts known to man….without ever feeling like you lifted a finger.

2. Ice Cream

Pecan Pralines N Cream…that’s my favorite.  Ice cream and gumbo are two things I can eat all year round. I know what you’re thinking…and I don’t eat them right after each other, lol.  But ice cream, frozen yogurt and slush drinks all seem to taste a little bit sweeter when it’s hot outside. It’s not Summer until you have some ice cream to go along with it.

3. Bringing Sexy Back

 

Let’s face it…one of the main reasons we all love summer is because we get to show off our bodies…and see others show off theirs. People break their necks on treadmills, trying to burn calories and stick to those resolutions more in those months leading up to Summer. It’s the only time you can show too much skin and actually get away with it.

4. Action Movies

Most of your action packed, multi million dollar budget movies will be released in the Summer, or close to it. There are usually so many great movies out at the same time, it’s hard to pick one. This season, we’ll have “The Dark Knight Rises”, “Men In Black III”, “The Amazing Spider Man” and “Total Recall” to look forward to. And if you haven’t seen “The Avengers” yet, what are you waiting for!? The upcoming Summer blockbusters will have to come hard to compete with this one.

5. Longer Days

There’s still 24 hours in a day, but it just feels like you get more done in the Summer. Why? Probably because it gets dark later and you have more daylight. Getting off work at 6:30pm and then having 2 more hours of daylight makes you feel a little more accomplished. It beats searching the parking lot for your car in the dark during winter time….and still having to go to the grocery store after you find it.

Stay tuned….later today I’ll be giving you the 5 reasons why I hate Summer….The Beast!