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This Is How We Do It

The most dangerous threat to change is people who don’t want to change. Most successful and innovative people are very head strong, but there’s one thing they have in common. They are receptive to change. Whether it’s something as small as rearranging your schedule for a loved one or revamping your image to get better business results, it all requires change. Why are we so stubborn when it comes to change? Well, let me fix that. It may not be all of us, but I’m definitely guilty of being set in my ways at times, lol. Don’t get me wrong, we should not be swayed by every opinion, occasion or idea, but when does not budging turn into a brick wall for a better life?

At work, church, relationships, and organizations, we all know people (hopefully not us, lol) that shoot down every opportunity for trying new methods. Some of these suggestions or ideas just may be the turning point needed to rise to a higher level. Then here comes the familiar statements, “We’ve tried that before”, “We’re better than that,” or “That’s not how we do it”. Sometimes we get so locked into policies and procedures (or just plain ole ignorance) that we fail to see when a new change is needed. Just because that’s how it’s been done, does that mean it’s the best way? NO!! The funny thing is when we operate solely out of habit, we don’t even know why we’re doing it! It’s usually just because that’s what we saw or what someone told us to do.

We often wonder why our dreams are not fulfilled; relationships repeatedly fail and we miss the mark on completing important tasks. Could it just be that we are exercising insanity every day? No, not the workout program, but doing the same things over and over while expecting better results. There are times where we have to change, “this is how we do it” to “that was how we did it”. What’s the worst that could happen? True, you could fail but at least you tried something new and didn’t remain stagnant. A standing body of water will never move anywhere. Are you holding on to the way you always do it? Or are you making room for a new way of doing things?

T-Boz Finds A New TLC

She’s the “Cool” one in the Crazy, Sexy, Cool trio that dominated the charts in the 90s. No other R & B female group has topped their record sales tally yet (over 40 million albums sold worldwide, not including singles). It’s hard to believe that it’s been 10 years since fans have gotten a new TLC CD. Their last project, 3D, was actually one of their best in my opinion but it was bittersweet without their most vibrant member’s presence, Lisa “Left Eye” Lopes. Now Tionne Watkins, a.k.a. “T-Boz” is breaking the silence on her new reality show, “Totally T-Boz” (hopefully the name of the show changes). The news was just revealed last week, but T-Boz has kept somewhat of a low profile about it. And what better channel to air the show? TLC. She’s no stranger to reality TV though. Her and band mate Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas went on a search and destroy mission to find one girl to record a single with them and be featured in a once in a lifetime performance. But that was 7 years ago and a lot has changed since then.

Destiny’s Child enjoyed massive success from airing their dirty laundry with their hit single, “Survivor”. But TLC (especially T-Boz) were the real survivors who bounced back from more than a lineup change (the original “C” in TLC, Crystal, was actually the one who created the group and was kicked out to be replaced by “Chilli”). Bankruptcy, sickle-cell, fighting with group members, bitter divorce and most recently a life -threatening brain tumor, T-Boz has weathered more storms than most people encounter in a life time. “Totally T-Boz” will document her recovery from her brain tumor, which included her having to regain her balance, speech and walking ability again. She also just received the key to Atlanta, where they have proclaimed October 3rd as “T-Boz Day” (she has one with TLC as well). Plus, there’s supposedly new music with Chilli to support a possible soundtrack to TLC’s upcoming VH1 biopic. And there has been talk of a solo CD from T-Boz for quite some time.

Will 2013 be the year of TLC? Will T-Boz’s show be a success? Is there still an interest in the front woman behind the hits “Waterfalls”, “Creep” and “Unpretty”? I commend her for at least coming out with a show of substance. We have more than enough Love and Hip Hop and Housewives shows on the air waves. I’ll definitely be tuning in. Will you?

Politicked: The Unofficial Report

Ok, so the Presidential debate is tonight and there will be plenty to discuss. But first, check out the commentary TLady75 (Tammie Henry) and I did about some of the recent political debates, new policies and shocking moments. Everything from Obama vs. Romney on 60 Minutes to Madonna stripping for President Obama and dumbfounded parents over the new Plan B in New York school districts. Definitely a WTH of sorts. It’s not politics…it’s politicked!!

Check out the video commentary below

What has got you politicked????

Freedom Fighters or Calorie Counters?

Forbidden fruit is always sweeter. Since the beginning of time, this is a known fact. There’s something about telling people they can’t have something that makes them want it even more. For New York City citizens, they may become all too familiar with this scenario sooner than they think. Last month, Mayor Michael Bloomberg announced that in order to promote healthier lifestyles in the city, there should be a ban on the sale of large-sized sodas (over 16 ounces) in restaurants, coffee shops, sporting venues, etc (besides grocery stores). He believes the city is obese, and this will help them make more health conscious beverage selections. Ironically, New York City was participating in National Donut Day the very next day after this very press conference. Entenmann’s even unveiled a 1 foot in diameter donut in Madison Square Park. That happened at the same time Michael Bloomberg’s proclamation letter was set to be unveiled by the public. WTH?! So it’s ok to eat donuts, as long as you don’t drink 32 oz sodas????

Meanwhile, Deputy Mayor Linda Gibbs, tried to defend the conflict between the red light on sodas and the green light on donuts by stating, “The celebratory events, the naming days in honor of individuals or items, or frivolities that are fun and [bring] exceptional joy are quite distinct from a public health agenda.” Yeah….Right Mayor Gibbs. If that helps you sleep at night…. As if to give the city some kind of treat to avoid cold turkey soda binges, Diet soft drinks and 0 calorie options would be excluded from the soda ban. But if you thought New Yorkers were taking this lightly, then think again. Although they will not be able to vote to stop the proposed ban (only approval from the NYC Department of Health is needed), members of the New Yorkers for Beverage Choices hand delivered over 6,100 comments from New Yorkers who oppose the ban. They also brought forth a very good point on the scheduling of yesterday’s public hearing: ”By scheduling this hearing in the middle of a business day during many restaurants’ and delis’ busy lunch periods, the Department of Health is sending a clear message that they are not interested in hearing what real New Yorkers have to say about this proposal.” New Yorkers are not standing by to watch how this situation fizzles out. They’re taking matters into their own hands to make a difference.

When I first heard about this, I was honestly very angered by it. With all of the poverty, senseless acts of violence, and equal rights issues floating around to be dealt with, why is soda such a big deal? True, we all know sodas aren’t good for us, but is Mayor Bloomberg really crazy enough to think that this will stop obesity??? If he was really concerned, do something like buying people healthy groceries with their gym memberships. How about that Bloomberg? (he doesn’t even get the handle of Mayor right now). I’ve never even been to New York, but I feel their pain. And to top all of it with a National Donut Day?! WTH? Let’s a take a minute to break these calories down. There are 310 calories in a 32 oz soda. A medium-sized donut is 255 calories. That’s a 55 calorie difference from not picking up the 32 oz soda. But the reality is, you’ll probably just drink one 32 oz soda in a day. But will you just eat one medium-sized donut? Highly unlikely! That’s 510 calories in less than 5 minutes (if you eat fast like me). Should have reached for that soda instead huh?

What are your thoughts on this foolishness? For more info on this insane proposed ban, check out www.nycbeveragechoices.com